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*MY FAMILY
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I am married to a beautiful Chinese lady (Rufina)in 1985 and we have 5 wonderful children, all boys before the tragedy.After the tragdey, only two of our children remained with us.Both myself and my wife are teachers and are now teaching in one secondary school in Miri.The elder boy (Terence) is in university while the younger one is in Form 4, after obtaining straight A in PMR last year (2007).So most of the time, especially weekend my wife and myself will be all alone together.
My wife is my constant campanion and friend.In all my activities, especially in ministry or fellowship, she is the main player behind the scene.In fact, when I was invited to sing in West Malaysia, she accompanied me.My wife is gifted. She helps in the cooking in all our home fellowship involving christians teachers and students. She is a very hospitable person and our home is always open for fellowship.Visitors learn alot form her in the areas of cooking.But my wife is not alone in the kitchen.I help with the cooking too.This end of the year(2006), she is going to present some gifts( baju kurung) to as many as 35 ladies in our village in the highlands.I am so blessed by her presence.She is a gift from God to me.
Many people thought that my loving wife is a Lun Bawang because she speaks better than many Lun Bawang people!So she has little or no problem with my people when we go back to my home village in the cool highlands.
Every end of the year we will spend our holidays in the highlands. The main reason is our three children were buried there.Going home is something we look forward to each year.
We have a garden house and a fruit garden.During the short holidays we drive to our garden and spend one or two nights there.
I always thank God for my wife.We had been married for more than twenty years now and only death will part us.
My family is always together.We always travel together.Sometimes,we pray, sing and read the word of God together.My two children has a number of friends and they always spend their weekend with us during the school days. We regard them as our children.
We have a house in Miri, where we spend the weekend after school. During the holidays, we go to our house some where in Limbang (about 150 km from Miri), a garden house where we have a fruit garden. Sometimes at the end of the year, we go back to the highlands, to our country house.
Of course what we have on earth is just temporary. We have a mansion up there in heaven. Since 1978, I was involved in students and adult ministry until now,my treasures in heaven must be enormous!
UPDATES
- My boy, Terence is now in university doing Mechanical Engineering, and currently doing his practical. My younger one is in form five at a fully residential school. He will be sitting for his SPM this year. Both are good in playing the guitar.Clarence sometimes lead worship at the youth services.
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